Aku dah buat kesimpulan. Aku memang pelupa DAN kadang kadang aku memilih benda benda yang cepat untuk aku lupakan.
Last night, I told hubby I wanted to join a fitness club near the house. I will lalu there setiap petang balik dari kerja so takde la alasan jauh nak singgah ke apa kan? Hubby said fine. But I said, dia kena belanja beli kasut. Ok..fine...dia cakap lagi Sungguh supportinve nih..Malam ni jugak gi beli?? Terus hubby jeling aku...hahahahahah..Ok..ok..Nanti weekend la kita beli kasut la ye? aku cakap balik.
Kejap nih, aku sms Hubby "Apa projek?" Memang selalu tengahari jumaat aku msg dia mcm tu. Kalau dia tak busy, kitaorang lunch sesama. Kalau busy, kengkadang dia tak sempat lunch pon.
Peh tu dia reply, "takde plan pon. NAK GI BELI KASUT KE?"
Kasut??? Wah...laki aku buang tebiat ka nak belikan aku kasut? Selalu dia jeling jeling kalau aku bawak balik kotak kasut..
Peh tu satu lagi SMS masuk yang diakhiri dengan ayat ini.."Tapi kalau beli, kena exercise btol btol la. Jangan la ngelat"
Owwwwwwwhh..Kasut SUKAN..
aku reply cenggini jek "heheheheheheheh...." dah tak tau nak cakap ape la tu sebenarnya..
p/s : *dengan muka bangga* just so that you guys know..The Petronas ad for CNY (Yasmin's of course) ..made in Ipoh babe!! I heart Ipoh!! dan innerself ku pun berkata "Dah.. dah... hapekejadah ko nak bangga..ko ke buat iklan tu??" Heheheheheh...
Friday, January 23, 2009
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Hobi
Aku seorang perempuan, tulen bangggg...
Tapi kadang kadang aku sangsi jugak sebenarnya....sebab..
Aku kurang.....atau.... mungkin tiada minat langsung untuk membawa "handbag". Handbag aku amat limited untuk ke office dan...er..ke office. Lagi la sejak ada Adam, aku tak pernah bawa handbag kalau keluar pon. I put my purse and my handphone in Adam's diaper bag. Senang nya hidup aku rasa...takde susah hati kalau menyeberang jalan teringatkan snatch thief ke apa.
Today takde kerja so aku Bloghopping and I came across few blog yang mana tuanpunya nya mati dan hidup untuk handbag (ini statement exaggerate dari aku), membuatkan aku tertanya tanya...di mana silapnya aku? Aku bukan pompuan ke? *raba diri sendiri* Dah kenapa aku takde hobi suka handbag? Suka kasut? KENAPA??
Aku tak puas hati. Aku google plak website bag. Sampai kat sini. I might be the last person to know this. Mula mula aku senyum. Aku rasa benda tu macam cute. Lelama aku macam fikir, that is like..taking narcissism to a higher level bila letak gambar sendiri....hihihihi....
Isk...dan sampai sekarang aku masih belum tau kenapa aku takde hobi suka beli/kumpul kasut/handbag.....
p/s : dan bos aku dah balik...
Tapi kadang kadang aku sangsi jugak sebenarnya....sebab..
Aku kurang.....atau.... mungkin tiada minat langsung untuk membawa "handbag". Handbag aku amat limited untuk ke office dan...er..ke office. Lagi la sejak ada Adam, aku tak pernah bawa handbag kalau keluar pon. I put my purse and my handphone in Adam's diaper bag. Senang nya hidup aku rasa...takde susah hati kalau menyeberang jalan teringatkan snatch thief ke apa.
Today takde kerja so aku Bloghopping and I came across few blog yang mana tuanpunya nya mati dan hidup untuk handbag (ini statement exaggerate dari aku), membuatkan aku tertanya tanya...di mana silapnya aku? Aku bukan pompuan ke? *raba diri sendiri* Dah kenapa aku takde hobi suka handbag? Suka kasut? KENAPA??
Aku tak puas hati. Aku google plak website bag. Sampai kat sini. I might be the last person to know this. Mula mula aku senyum. Aku rasa benda tu macam cute. Lelama aku macam fikir, that is like..taking narcissism to a higher level bila letak gambar sendiri....hihihihi....
Isk...dan sampai sekarang aku masih belum tau kenapa aku takde hobi suka beli/kumpul kasut/handbag.....
p/s : dan bos aku dah balik...
Friday, January 16, 2009
Helo..Hellooooooo...
Maybe I'll get a smack in my face for writing this down. Tapi aku tak peduli la...Dah pernah dah rasa kena debik kat muka macam mana (itu cerita lain).
But this is what I really feel. I seem to bumped into my ex-schoolmate..like..everywhere. Bukan lah aku tak suka jumpa kawan kawan lama. Tapi ade waktunya, aku agak rimas.
Some of us changed after all these years. Orang yang 10 tahun dulu makan, tidur, belajar, kena rotan, kena marah, kena detention class sama dengan engkau, mungkin bukan orang yang sama sekarang.
And for once, please stop talking about school. Yeah, I know. It is good memories. Tapi dah nama pun memories.. Ingat je la sudah. Tak payah reminiscing tiap tiap kali jumpa / chat, buley? Itu zaman *cough* 12 tahun dulu.
Bukannya aku tak keep in touch dengan kawan kawan sekolah lain, I did. Tapi too much of them kills me! I still chat to M and S ocassionally apa? O pun comes to my blog once in a while. We send msg kat facebook la, YM la..apa la..and then I talk to our seniors once in a while.
Tapi kalau pro-sekolah sangat buat aku macam nak termuntah and that is why I am not in that group......
*muntah*
p/s : Belum.. aku belum mengandung buat kali kedua.. :-)
But this is what I really feel. I seem to bumped into my ex-schoolmate..like..everywhere. Bukan lah aku tak suka jumpa kawan kawan lama. Tapi ade waktunya, aku agak rimas.
Some of us changed after all these years. Orang yang 10 tahun dulu makan, tidur, belajar, kena rotan, kena marah, kena detention class sama dengan engkau, mungkin bukan orang yang sama sekarang.
And for once, please stop talking about school. Yeah, I know. It is good memories. Tapi dah nama pun memories.. Ingat je la sudah. Tak payah reminiscing tiap tiap kali jumpa / chat, buley? Itu zaman *cough* 12 tahun dulu.
Bukannya aku tak keep in touch dengan kawan kawan sekolah lain, I did. Tapi too much of them kills me! I still chat to M and S ocassionally apa? O pun comes to my blog once in a while. We send msg kat facebook la, YM la..apa la..and then I talk to our seniors once in a while.
Tapi kalau pro-sekolah sangat buat aku macam nak termuntah and that is why I am not in that group......
*muntah*
p/s : Belum.. aku belum mengandung buat kali kedua.. :-)
Hantu kah?
Something weird happen this morning. I arrived at the office and when straight to the lav. It's a routine actually. I need to check and FIX my make up. You see, since Adam came in the picture, I can only put my make up in the car. Tak sempat. So before my boss call me and tell me I look like a JOKER, I better check first. It took me less than 2 minutes in there. Put some mascara, betulkan bedak bedak yang bertempek then I rush out to my place.
Then N came.
“Akakkkkk!”! Dengan suara nyaring dan nada excited
“Kat mana akak letak kunci kereta akak?”
Belum sepat aku nak jawab, dia hulur kunci kereta aku. Belum sempat aku tanya, dia dah explain.
“Saya jumpa dalam toilet. Btol btol kat tepi lubang toilet.”
Dia nampak aku kerut dahi agaknya, dia ulang lagi sekali apa yang dia cakap.
“Oh..Ok..thanks eih.”
Aku tengok je kunci aku ni. Dah dekat seminit kot aku perati. Musykil gak macam mana kunci kereta aku boleh jalan sendiri masuk WC padahal aku berdiri depan cermin dekat sink tu je. Takde pun belok gi mana mana. Yang lagi musykil, macam mana dia bleh naik atas WC, parking kan diri dia betul betul kat tepi lubang tu.
Iskk....Aku musykil nih...
p/s : Lil cakap toilet ofis aku ade hantu.... :-)
Then N came.
“Akakkkkk!”! Dengan suara nyaring dan nada excited
“Kat mana akak letak kunci kereta akak?”
Belum sepat aku nak jawab, dia hulur kunci kereta aku. Belum sempat aku tanya, dia dah explain.
“Saya jumpa dalam toilet. Btol btol kat tepi lubang toilet.”
Dia nampak aku kerut dahi agaknya, dia ulang lagi sekali apa yang dia cakap.
“Oh..Ok..thanks eih.”
Aku tengok je kunci aku ni. Dah dekat seminit kot aku perati. Musykil gak macam mana kunci kereta aku boleh jalan sendiri masuk WC padahal aku berdiri depan cermin dekat sink tu je. Takde pun belok gi mana mana. Yang lagi musykil, macam mana dia bleh naik atas WC, parking kan diri dia betul betul kat tepi lubang tu.
Iskk....Aku musykil nih...
p/s : Lil cakap toilet ofis aku ade hantu.... :-)
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Credit To Queen Leen Of Leen Nation
Apart from our everyday prayer, maybe we can ACTUALLY help. Read through and decide. All credit goes to Leen - The Queen with a very big heart.. :-)
1) Mercy Malaysia – PALESTINE RELIEF FUND
From their website: MERCY Malaysia initiated an emergency response assessment team on the 30th December 2008 to Egypt in response to the humanitarian crisis resulting from the Israeli attacks on the Gaza Strip, which has killed more than 300 people and wounded more than 1,500 people.The team, aimed at conducting a rapid assessment of the humanitarian needs, will be led by MERCY Malaysia President Datuk Dr. Jemilah Mahmood and EXCO Member Norazam Ab Samah.
We appeal to concerned Malaysians to send in cash donations.MERCY Malaysia's basis of assistance to the beneficiaries relies on the support and generosity of individuals such as you to contribute to the PALESTINE RELIEF FUND.
It will support our efforts to procure emergency surgical kits, additional medicine and hospital equipment which will be channeled to the affected communities in Gaza.
PALESTINE RELIEF FUND
Cheque payable to MERCY MALAYSIACIMB Account No : 1424-000-6561053
You can also download our donation form. Download Donation Form.For more information please contact 03-2273 3999 or email us at info@mercy.org.my
2) Red Crescent Malaysia – MRCS INTERNATIONAL RELIEF FUND
Malaysian Red Crescent Malaysia has been given letter of approval from the Embassy to travel to Al-Airsh, 27km from Rafah. They will be treating the war victims at the Palestine Red Crescent Hospital in Cairo; working closely with Egyptian Red Crescent and Palestine Red Crescent societies.Again, MRC appeals to the generous Malaysian to donate to "MRCS INTERNATIONAL RELIEF FUND".
Donors can sent cheques or cash to the following address:
Secretary GeneralMalaysian Red Crescent Society
National Headquarters
32, Jalan Nipah off Jalan Ampang
55000 Kuala Lumpur
Cheques should be made out to the “MRCS International Relief Fund” written at the back GAZA CITY or bank in into
MAYBANK
Account Name : MRCS INTERNATIONAL RELIEF FUND
Account No : 5144 - 2210 – 2657
** Donations to the MRCS are entitled to tax exemption **
3) Maybank & NSTP – NSTP FUND FOR GAZA
Those with Maybank accounts will find this most convenient where you can just go online via Maybank2U and transfer money (via New 3rd Party Account Transfer) to Maybank Account number: 514105-320501. You can also contribute by dropping by at any of Maybank branches, KawanKu phone banking, cash/cheque deposit machines and at more than 2,700 KawanKu ATMs nationwide. Actually, those without Maybank accounts can also transfer to the above Maybank account as well via inter-Giro transfer.
4) Islamic Relief Malaysia – GAZA EMERGENCY APPEAL
They have extensive listed down what they need here: You can go here to donate. The form requires you to fill in some information about yourself and proveed via various payment method:
Walk in at their office in Seri Kembangan (hey, that’s nearby!),
deposit to their Maybank Account: 562142708704;
Credit Card and online payment which allows you to donate via your Maybank2U, credit cards, Alliance Online, AM online, RHB online, Hong Leong Online, FPX, Mobile Money and PosPay.
5) Malaysian Social Research Institute – SPONSORSHIP PROGRAMME
Elisa also suggested adopting a Palestinian orphan. I checked the website of the organisation in question (Malaysian Social Research Institute) and read about their Sponsorship programme. To summarise, MRSI has a Sponsorship Programme where at a specified rate, you can sponsor a Palestinian child living in refugee camps in Lebanon. The programme was set in 1988 under our government-created Trust. All donations are tax-exempted and will be provided with receipts.
To sponsor a child will set you back for RM1,640.0 per child per year. This is a bit much for some people (me included) but like she suggested, perhaps a few of us can group together so that the costs is lesser?
Should you be interested, you can register your interest here:
MSRI/Sponsorship of Palestinian Children
49 Jalan U-Thant (JKR 2825)
55000 Kuala Lumpur
Tel: 603- 4257 8649Fax: 603- 4252 8709
Email: msri.sponsorship@gmail.com
You can also download their brochure for further information.
You guys can also check Aman Palestin out....
1) Mercy Malaysia – PALESTINE RELIEF FUND
From their website: MERCY Malaysia initiated an emergency response assessment team on the 30th December 2008 to Egypt in response to the humanitarian crisis resulting from the Israeli attacks on the Gaza Strip, which has killed more than 300 people and wounded more than 1,500 people.The team, aimed at conducting a rapid assessment of the humanitarian needs, will be led by MERCY Malaysia President Datuk Dr. Jemilah Mahmood and EXCO Member Norazam Ab Samah.
We appeal to concerned Malaysians to send in cash donations.MERCY Malaysia's basis of assistance to the beneficiaries relies on the support and generosity of individuals such as you to contribute to the PALESTINE RELIEF FUND.
It will support our efforts to procure emergency surgical kits, additional medicine and hospital equipment which will be channeled to the affected communities in Gaza.
PALESTINE RELIEF FUND
Cheque payable to MERCY MALAYSIACIMB Account No : 1424-000-6561053
You can also download our donation form. Download Donation Form.For more information please contact 03-2273 3999 or email us at info@mercy.org.my
2) Red Crescent Malaysia – MRCS INTERNATIONAL RELIEF FUND
Malaysian Red Crescent Malaysia has been given letter of approval from the Embassy to travel to Al-Airsh, 27km from Rafah. They will be treating the war victims at the Palestine Red Crescent Hospital in Cairo; working closely with Egyptian Red Crescent and Palestine Red Crescent societies.Again, MRC appeals to the generous Malaysian to donate to "MRCS INTERNATIONAL RELIEF FUND".
Donors can sent cheques or cash to the following address:
Secretary GeneralMalaysian Red Crescent Society
National Headquarters
32, Jalan Nipah off Jalan Ampang
55000 Kuala Lumpur
Cheques should be made out to the “MRCS International Relief Fund” written at the back GAZA CITY or bank in into
MAYBANK
Account Name : MRCS INTERNATIONAL RELIEF FUND
Account No : 5144 - 2210 – 2657
** Donations to the MRCS are entitled to tax exemption **
3) Maybank & NSTP – NSTP FUND FOR GAZA
Those with Maybank accounts will find this most convenient where you can just go online via Maybank2U and transfer money (via New 3rd Party Account Transfer) to Maybank Account number: 514105-320501. You can also contribute by dropping by at any of Maybank branches, KawanKu phone banking, cash/cheque deposit machines and at more than 2,700 KawanKu ATMs nationwide. Actually, those without Maybank accounts can also transfer to the above Maybank account as well via inter-Giro transfer.
4) Islamic Relief Malaysia – GAZA EMERGENCY APPEAL
They have extensive listed down what they need here: You can go here to donate. The form requires you to fill in some information about yourself and proveed via various payment method:
Walk in at their office in Seri Kembangan (hey, that’s nearby!),
deposit to their Maybank Account: 562142708704;
Credit Card and online payment which allows you to donate via your Maybank2U, credit cards, Alliance Online, AM online, RHB online, Hong Leong Online, FPX, Mobile Money and PosPay.
5) Malaysian Social Research Institute – SPONSORSHIP PROGRAMME
Elisa also suggested adopting a Palestinian orphan. I checked the website of the organisation in question (Malaysian Social Research Institute) and read about their Sponsorship programme. To summarise, MRSI has a Sponsorship Programme where at a specified rate, you can sponsor a Palestinian child living in refugee camps in Lebanon. The programme was set in 1988 under our government-created Trust. All donations are tax-exempted and will be provided with receipts.
To sponsor a child will set you back for RM1,640.0 per child per year. This is a bit much for some people (me included) but like she suggested, perhaps a few of us can group together so that the costs is lesser?
Should you be interested, you can register your interest here:
MSRI/Sponsorship of Palestinian Children
49 Jalan U-Thant (JKR 2825)
55000 Kuala Lumpur
Tel: 603- 4257 8649Fax: 603- 4252 8709
Email: msri.sponsorship@gmail.com
You can also download their brochure for further information.
You guys can also check Aman Palestin out....
Better Read This
In my previous entry, I sound like a very ignorant bithc didn't I? Well, maybe I am. Pertamanya sebab kurang ilmu. Keduanya sebab tak berapa nak membaca benda yang penting penting macam nih. Tapi korang semua jangan jadi ignorant macam aku. Rajinkan membaca sikit ya?? Aku siap copy paste nih. Maklumat lanjut, pelase refer to Amanah Raya Berhad
Pemahaman terhadap faraid
Mungkin kurangnya kefahaman tentang ilmu faraid membuat sebahagian umat Islam memberikan komen yang negatif terhadap ilmu faraid. Sebaliknya mereka yang faham tentang ilmu faraid telah memberikan komen yang baik walaupun mereka terdiri daripada orientalis yang sentiasa mencari jalan untuk memperlecehkan hukum Islam. Sebagai contoh, seorang orientalis yang bernama Rumsey menyatakan "Pembahagian harta pusaka dalam Islam tidak syak lagi merupakan sistem perundangan harta yang paling baik dan canggih yang pernah diketahui oleh dunia bertamadun”
Sementara itu, seorang lagi orientalis, Professor N. J. Coulson yang pernah mengajar di School of Oriental and African Studies (SOAS), University of London menyatakan, "Undang-undang pembahagian harta pusaka dalam Islam merupakan suatu pencapaian teknikal yang mantap dan sayugianyalah ilmuan Islam berasa bangga dalam ketepatan matematik dalam menentukan hak mana-mana waris, dalam keadaan apa" sekalipun, boleh ditentukan"
Sehubungan dengan ini, jika kesemua waris ada, yang berhak menerima pusaka hanya suami atau isteri, ibu, bapa, anak lelaki dan anak perempuan sementara yang lain tidak dapat mewarisi. Waris-waris yang lain, yang berada diluar bulatan pertama dihijab atau di dinding oleh lima waris ini. Gambarajah dibawah menunjukkan lima waris utama yang berhak menerima pusaka jika semua waris berkumpul.
Bahagian yang telah ditetapkan Sebenarnya ilmu faraid tidaklah susah; asasnya boleh dikuasai oleh sesiapa sahaja yang berminat untuk mempelajarinya. Cuma, apabila kita sampai ketahap yang lebih mendalam, barulah kita mendapati perkara yang berkaitan dengan faraid agak sukar diselesaikan. Untuk kes-kes biasa, di mana simati meninggalkan waris-waris utama iaitu suami atau isteri, ibu bapa dan anak-anak, tidaklah sukar.
Kedua-dua ayat al-Quran di atas, iaitu ayat 11 dan ayat 12 Surah An-Nisa dapat dijadikan panduan. Berdasarkan kepada ayat-ayat dan gambarajah di atas, kita boleh membuat kesimpulan bahawa pada amnya ibu bapa mendapat 1/6 daripada harta pusaka, isteri mendapat ¼ jika suami yang meninggal tidak meninggalkan anak dan 1/8 jika suami yang meninggal ada meninggalkan anak. Begitu pula suami mendapat 1/2 jika isteri yang meninggal tiada meninggalkan anak dan 1/4 jika isteri yang meninggal ada meninggalkan anak. Baki daripada harta pusaka adalah untuk anak-anak dimana anak lelaki mendapat dua kali ganda bahagian anak perempuan.
Cara penyelesaian :
Sebagai contoh, katakan seorang lelaki meninggal dunia dan meninggalkan ibu, bapa, isteri, seorang anak lelaki dan tiga orang anak perempuan. Maka disini ibu bapa masing-masing akan mendapat 1/6 setiap seorang, isteri mendapat 1/8 (kerana suami meninggal ada meninggalkan anak) dan bakinya adalah untuk anak-anak dibahagikan mengikut kadar 2:1 bagi lelaki : perempuan. Cara untuk menyelesaikan masalah untuk kes-kes seperti di atas adalah seperti berikut :
Berikan bahagian suami/isteri jika ada
Berikan bahagian ibu jika ada
Berikan bahagian bapa jika ada
Campurkan semua, katakan jawapannya S
Tolak daripada 1 (iaitu 1-S) dan dapatkan baki, katakan B
Ambil bilangan anak lelaki dan darab dua, katakan 2b
Campurkan dengan bilangan anak perempuan, katakan p
Bahagian setiap anak lelaki = 2/(2b+p) X B
Bahagian setiap anak perempuan = 1/(2b+p) X B
Untuk mendapatkan S, kita hendaklah mencari gandaan sepunya terkecil (GSTK) bagi jumlah bahagian-bahagian suami/isteri, ibu dan bapa. Untuk kes di atas, GSTK ialah 24 kerana 24 adalah gandaan terkecil yang boleh dibahagi oleh 6, (iaitu penyebut bagi bahagian ibu dan bapa) dan 8, iaitu penyebut bagi bahagian isteri. Jadi, 1/6 bersamaan dengan 4/24 dan 1/8 bersamaan dengan 3/24. Maka S ialah :
S = 1/6 + 1/6 + 1/8 = 4/24 + 4/24 + 3/24 = 11/24
Maka baki B yang boleh dibahagikan kepada anak-anak ialah 1 – 11/24 = 13/24.
Untuk mendapatkan bahagian setiap anak lelaki dan perempuan, darab bilangan anak lelaki dengan 2 dan tambah dengan bilangan anak perempuan iaitu 1 X 2 + 3 = 5. Maka bahagian anak lelaki ialah 2/5 X 13/24 dan bahagian setiap anak perempuan ialah 1/5 X 13/24. Penyelesaian sepenuhnya adalah seperti berikut :
Bahagian anak lelaki ialah : 2/5 X 13/24 = 26/120
Bahagian setiap anak perempuan ialah : 1/5 X 13/24 = 13/120
Bahagian ibu dan bapa masing-masing ialah 1/6 = 4/24 = 20/120
Bahagian isteri ialah 1/8 = 3/24 = 15/120
Gambar rajah berikut memberikan gambaran penyelesaian kepada masalah tersebut.
Berikan bahagian suami/isteri jika ada
Berikan bahagian ibu jika ada
Berikan bahagian bapa jika ada
Campurkan semua, katakan jawapannya S
Tolak daripada 1 (iaitu 1-S) dan dapatkan baki, katakan B
Ambil bilangan anak lelaki dan darab dua, katakan 2b
Campurkan dengan bilangan anak perempuan, katakan p
Bahagian setiap anak lelaki = 2/(2b+p) X B
Bahagian setiap anak perempuan = 1/(2b+p) X B
Untuk mendapatkan S, kita hendaklah mencari gandaan sepunya terkecil (GSTK) bagi jumlah bahagian-bahagian suami/isteri, ibu dan bapa. Untuk kes di atas, GSTK ialah 24 kerana 24 adalah gandaan terkecil yang boleh dibahagi oleh 6, (iaitu penyebut bagi bahagian ibu dan bapa) dan 8, iaitu penyebut bagi bahagian isteri. Jadi, 1/6 bersamaan dengan 4/24 dan 1/8 bersamaan dengan 3/24. Maka S ialah :
S = 1/6 + 1/6 + 1/8 = 4/24 + 4/24 + 3/24 = 11/24
Maka baki B yang boleh dibahagikan kepada anak-anak ialah 1 – 11/24 = 13/24.
Untuk mendapatkan bahagian setiap anak lelaki dan perempuan, darab bilangan anak lelaki dengan 2 dan tambah dengan bilangan anak perempuan iaitu 1 X 2 + 3 = 5. Maka bahagian anak lelaki ialah 2/5 X 13/24 dan bahagian setiap anak perempuan ialah 1/5 X 13/24. Penyelesaian sepenuhnya adalah seperti berikut :
Bahagian anak lelaki ialah : 2/5 X 13/24 = 26/120
Bahagian setiap anak perempuan ialah : 1/5 X 13/24 = 13/120
Bahagian ibu dan bapa masing-masing ialah 1/6 = 4/24 = 20/120
Bahagian isteri ialah 1/8 = 3/24 = 15/120
Gambar rajah berikut memberikan gambaran penyelesaian kepada masalah tersebut.
Agak agak boleh tak buat kira kira tu?? Teheheheheh...
Friday, January 09, 2009
This Is Not Me
I used to be a very moody bitch. I still am actually..just maybe a lil' bit more less..
I used to fuss over small issues. I still am actually, just maybe a lil' bit more calmer nowadays..
I used to wake up with a scowl on my face...Now, I smile. But that didn't change anything..
People still treat me badly. I still don't get what I want. People hurt me.
I realized now that no matter how hard you try to be a better person, no matter how good you treat the others, people will still hurt you once in a while.
What am I to do?
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I received my Personal Accident Insurance Renewal Policy today. So now I got 2 policies. I'm not sure whether that is legal or not, to have 2 policies of PA at the same time. I bought one for myself as soon as I finish my study few years back so that if anything happen to me, my parents will not be burden by it.
Then the company I am currently working for, bought one for me as well. The sum insured is not that huge. If I die, my beneficiaries gonna get RM 200,000.00. Of course, my beneficiareis are my mom and my dad. I sign the insurance long before I got married. So Hub and Adam are not in the picture yet.
And I decided not to change that too until my colleague came to me just now giving the number of our insurance agent.
"Nak buat apa nih?"
"Call la dia..mintak borang tukar benefiaciaries ko tu..."
"Buat apa nak tukar?" kadang kadang aku memang sound like a bimbo. erk...ke selalu ha??
"La...tak nak tukar nama laki ko?"
Aku macam confuse.. "Kena tukar ke?"
Lepas tu dia gelak..."banyak main la ko nii....dah dah..nanti ko tukar tau. Ade ke tak nak tukar nama laki.."
Dia rasa aku main main?
Tapi betul...aku memang tertanya tanya, kena tukar ke?? Mungkin aku akan tukar kalau dia cakap kepada nama anak aku..tapi LAKI aku??
We talk about this. Me and Hubby. I told him if I die, he probably won't get a single cent. Walaupun dalam Islam dia sebenarnya adalah pewaris harta aku yang sah. I told him, if he gets everything, how about my mom and my dad? Tambah lagi la kalau diorang dah uzur.
Boleh ke suami aku janji untuk terus jaga diorang kalau aku dah takde? Kalau dia tak kawin lain, mungkin la boleh kot. Tapi dah kalaua de jodoh dia ngan pompuan lain..Macam mana? Mana nak sara bini baru, mak pak mertua baru, anak baru lagi...Kan susah?
Sebab anak dia orang, just me. There's Shin Chan and W, tapi both tu anak angkat. If one day they decided to trace their roots and decided they wanted to be with their biological parents siapa yang boleh halang?
Aku bagitau Hubs, tanggungjawab aku pada diorang masih ada walaupun aku ade suami, ade family. Dan aku amat bertuah kerana dia faham. Tapi of course aku janji aku akan tukar KWSP aku untuk Adam....
Jadi, kalau laki aku faham, siapa pulak ko yang tiba tiba nak soh aku tukar benefiaciaries aku???
I used to fuss over small issues. I still am actually, just maybe a lil' bit more calmer nowadays..
I used to wake up with a scowl on my face...Now, I smile. But that didn't change anything..
People still treat me badly. I still don't get what I want. People hurt me.
I realized now that no matter how hard you try to be a better person, no matter how good you treat the others, people will still hurt you once in a while.
What am I to do?
****
I received my Personal Accident Insurance Renewal Policy today. So now I got 2 policies. I'm not sure whether that is legal or not, to have 2 policies of PA at the same time. I bought one for myself as soon as I finish my study few years back so that if anything happen to me, my parents will not be burden by it.
Then the company I am currently working for, bought one for me as well. The sum insured is not that huge. If I die, my beneficiaries gonna get RM 200,000.00. Of course, my beneficiareis are my mom and my dad. I sign the insurance long before I got married. So Hub and Adam are not in the picture yet.
And I decided not to change that too until my colleague came to me just now giving the number of our insurance agent.
"Nak buat apa nih?"
"Call la dia..mintak borang tukar benefiaciaries ko tu..."
"Buat apa nak tukar?" kadang kadang aku memang sound like a bimbo. erk...ke selalu ha??
"La...tak nak tukar nama laki ko?"
Aku macam confuse.. "Kena tukar ke?"
Lepas tu dia gelak..."banyak main la ko nii....dah dah..nanti ko tukar tau. Ade ke tak nak tukar nama laki.."
Dia rasa aku main main?
Tapi betul...aku memang tertanya tanya, kena tukar ke?? Mungkin aku akan tukar kalau dia cakap kepada nama anak aku..tapi LAKI aku??
We talk about this. Me and Hubby. I told him if I die, he probably won't get a single cent. Walaupun dalam Islam dia sebenarnya adalah pewaris harta aku yang sah. I told him, if he gets everything, how about my mom and my dad? Tambah lagi la kalau diorang dah uzur.
Boleh ke suami aku janji untuk terus jaga diorang kalau aku dah takde? Kalau dia tak kawin lain, mungkin la boleh kot. Tapi dah kalaua de jodoh dia ngan pompuan lain..Macam mana? Mana nak sara bini baru, mak pak mertua baru, anak baru lagi...Kan susah?
Sebab anak dia orang, just me. There's Shin Chan and W, tapi both tu anak angkat. If one day they decided to trace their roots and decided they wanted to be with their biological parents siapa yang boleh halang?
Aku bagitau Hubs, tanggungjawab aku pada diorang masih ada walaupun aku ade suami, ade family. Dan aku amat bertuah kerana dia faham. Tapi of course aku janji aku akan tukar KWSP aku untuk Adam....
Jadi, kalau laki aku faham, siapa pulak ko yang tiba tiba nak soh aku tukar benefiaciaries aku???
Thursday, January 08, 2009
Hiks!
Thanks to Leen of Leen Nation , now I am submissive servant to my printer. I decided to try to talk to it and guess what, it is actually the machine version of that sexy Lex Luthor from Smallville....
But you can't BJ a printer can you??
*aku dah gila agaknya*
But you can't BJ a printer can you??
*aku dah gila agaknya*
Me? Award?
I got this from a strong & rocking mom , Aishah of Pieces From Daily Life. Thanks Babe..
But then there's too many blog out there that I love..I can't just decide.....
You all just rocks..big time.
Tuesday, January 06, 2009
Hitam - Kadang Kadang Menghappykan
I did said that black sometimes puts me off as it is quite a depressing colour for me but still, I don the all-black get up today, just so that I can look a lil' bit slimmer down the waistline..AND guess what?
"Ko nampak sexy hari ni babe!!"
AND that comes from the office cross - dresser, LiL .
I should be all gleaming and swelling now....
I AM!!
p/s : Lil memang agak terkenal dengan mulut laser..so kalau dia puji (aku anggap dia puji la tu) , seharusnya bener .... *gelak drakula*
"Ko nampak sexy hari ni babe!!"
AND that comes from the office cross - dresser, LiL .
I should be all gleaming and swelling now....
I AM!!
p/s : Lil memang agak terkenal dengan mulut laser..so kalau dia puji (aku anggap dia puji la tu) , seharusnya bener .... *gelak drakula*
Monday, January 05, 2009
Of The Glamorous Life - 2
Despite of fancy handbags / shoes for myself, I bought this for Adam today..
Fancy kan? Glamour kan?
I decided to become one of those eco - friendly mothers. Wanna bet for how long can I hang in there?? I bet it 2 weeks, tops! Hahaha..but seriously guys, wish me luck. I need it. It is still very hard to imagine me handling Adam without disposables....
pic courtesy of Babybeehinds and The Cheek Boutique
Fancy kan? Glamour kan?I decided to become one of those eco - friendly mothers. Wanna bet for how long can I hang in there?? I bet it 2 weeks, tops! Hahaha..but seriously guys, wish me luck. I need it. It is still very hard to imagine me handling Adam without disposables....
pic courtesy of Babybeehinds and The Cheek Boutique
The Glamorous Life
"Wah..bestnya...ko dah jadi mommy sekarang ya?"
Seriously, there's nothing glamorous about being a mother. But do take note, I am not saying this because I hate it. I am very much loving it, motherhood that is, walaupun kadang kadang Adam buat aku pening kepala.
Sebetulnya, aku agak tak berapa selesa kalau kamu ayat ayat di atas itu pada aku. Aku juga tak gembira kalau ade mak / bapak jadikan aku contoh pada anak mereka yang sebaya dengan aku, tapi masih single-mingle.
APAKAH???
Sebabnya senang,
Pertama : aku rasa amat tak selesa.
Kedua : what am I suppose to say or how am I suppose to react?
Bermegah megah bahawa hidup aku ini seronok dengan perfume baru bernama 'Muak Susu No.1' ?
Atau pun mencubit cubit lemak yang masih belum mahu tanggal ini di depan kamu semua?
Atau dengan seronoknya memberitahu kamu semua bahawa hidup aku ini penuh glamour memilih design diapers yang mana paling fancy untuk Adam?
Macam tu?? Tsk tsk tsk..
Pepatah orang Jerman, kita selalu melihat kehidupan orang lain tapi part part yang best je. Part yang tak best kita tak nampak.
Aku pun sama je sebenarnya.
Aku nampak korang yang single, masih mendapat tidur yang cukup di malam hari (kecuali kalau korang gi clubbing) sebab aku kena bangun 2/3 kali semalam untuk menyusukan Adam.
Korang boleh pergi mana pun korang nak tanpa perlu memikirkan pasal "tanggungjawab" korang pada keluarga. Nak gi Kenya ke gi Paris ke sengsorang, takde sape nak kisah pon. Makcik Leha belakang rumah pun tak ngumpat mengata kalau korang gi tengok wayang peh tu tinggalkan anak korang ngan maid indon jek..
Kan??
Jadi sesungguhnya, walaupun aku happy dengan family aku, aku pun masih ade terdetik di hati "seronok jugak ya single nih"
Aku nampak korang yang single tiada masalah untuk berehat di hujung minggu kerana hujung minggu aku selalunya di isi dengan lawatan saudara mara atau pulang ke rumah ibu mertua.
Korang boleh tengok wayang midnight kan? AKU TAK BOLEH!!
Tapi macam aku cakap mula mula tadi, jangan lah salah faham. Janganlah ingat aku tulis macam ni sebab aku tak sayang Adam or Hubby. Sebenarnya, aku masih percaya, setiap apa yang jadi ada hikmahnya. Dan Allah tentukan aku untuk bernikah dan ada anak di usia yang agak muda *muntah* pun ada sebabnya. Dan aku rasa aku tau kenapa...tapi itu rahsiaaaaaaa....
p/s : Actually going out got nothing to do with Adam. I can always do that. But I think I am not ready yet for that. Playing with Adam beats everything..
Seriously, there's nothing glamorous about being a mother. But do take note, I am not saying this because I hate it. I am very much loving it, motherhood that is, walaupun kadang kadang Adam buat aku pening kepala.
Sebetulnya, aku agak tak berapa selesa kalau kamu ayat ayat di atas itu pada aku. Aku juga tak gembira kalau ade mak / bapak jadikan aku contoh pada anak mereka yang sebaya dengan aku, tapi masih single-mingle.
APAKAH???
Sebabnya senang,
Pertama : aku rasa amat tak selesa.
Kedua : what am I suppose to say or how am I suppose to react?
Bermegah megah bahawa hidup aku ini seronok dengan perfume baru bernama 'Muak Susu No.1' ?
Atau pun mencubit cubit lemak yang masih belum mahu tanggal ini di depan kamu semua?
Atau dengan seronoknya memberitahu kamu semua bahawa hidup aku ini penuh glamour memilih design diapers yang mana paling fancy untuk Adam?
Macam tu?? Tsk tsk tsk..
Pepatah orang Jerman, kita selalu melihat kehidupan orang lain tapi part part yang best je. Part yang tak best kita tak nampak.
Aku pun sama je sebenarnya.
Aku nampak korang yang single, masih mendapat tidur yang cukup di malam hari (kecuali kalau korang gi clubbing) sebab aku kena bangun 2/3 kali semalam untuk menyusukan Adam.
Korang boleh pergi mana pun korang nak tanpa perlu memikirkan pasal "tanggungjawab" korang pada keluarga. Nak gi Kenya ke gi Paris ke sengsorang, takde sape nak kisah pon. Makcik Leha belakang rumah pun tak ngumpat mengata kalau korang gi tengok wayang peh tu tinggalkan anak korang ngan maid indon jek..
Kan??
Jadi sesungguhnya, walaupun aku happy dengan family aku, aku pun masih ade terdetik di hati "seronok jugak ya single nih"
Aku nampak korang yang single tiada masalah untuk berehat di hujung minggu kerana hujung minggu aku selalunya di isi dengan lawatan saudara mara atau pulang ke rumah ibu mertua.
Korang boleh tengok wayang midnight kan? AKU TAK BOLEH!!
Tapi macam aku cakap mula mula tadi, jangan lah salah faham. Janganlah ingat aku tulis macam ni sebab aku tak sayang Adam or Hubby. Sebenarnya, aku masih percaya, setiap apa yang jadi ada hikmahnya. Dan Allah tentukan aku untuk bernikah dan ada anak di usia yang agak muda *muntah* pun ada sebabnya. Dan aku rasa aku tau kenapa...tapi itu rahsiaaaaaaa....
p/s : Actually going out got nothing to do with Adam. I can always do that. But I think I am not ready yet for that. Playing with Adam beats everything..
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