Dia Memang Anak Aku

Last weekend was spent WITHOUT Adam and Hubby...And I am ok with it. YEAH RIGHT!!

Well, I did feel like crying the first night when Adam was nowhere near me. Tapi berjaya jugak tidur in the end. Walau pun itu lah tidur yang paling tak lena...SORT of like the worst night ever. Adam dan ayahnya balik kampung (PIL) without me as I got some works to do at home.

I was quite worried actually. He is still not familiar with the new car seat as we bought it a day before the trip. I'm afraid he will get cranky and cried. But my darling boy, is really a good boy..

Macam tak percaya Adam tersangatlah independant nya. Hubby told me he just sat in the car seat, sometimes "singing" to entertain himself but most of the time, sleeping. Tak menangis langsung.

Any mother would say that he behaves so well because he is such a good boy.But I secretly think it is the car seat..*grin*..

It really put a dent in Hubby's pocket....

On Monday, Adam was back at home. He looks happy to see me. Can't stop from kissing and cuddling him for a few good hours.

Afternoon came and he gets cranky. It's time for his afternoon nap. Tapi pelik la plak. Bagi susu tak nak. Bagi pacifier tak nak.

"Cuba bagi u punya.."

*gelak*

Aku selak baju..Dan Adam terus macam "high", terus lena!!

Ayat mak aku "haaa..Rindu rupanya!!Ingat dah tak ingat dah..Ketagih la tu. !!"

Adam...Adam....

All In One

Its 26 Dec..pejam celik pejam celik..dah sampai hujung tahun....And of course macam macam jadi .. kalau takde ape ape yang jadi tu, rasanya korang kena gi cuba check la apa apa yg patut kot..

This is an early new year shout out, mana la tahu kalau - kalau aku tak jejak tahun baru .. agak pesimist bunyinya...tapi itu kenyataan kan? Kot la aku tercekik cucur badak tengah menaip nih..sape la tahu kan..

To Gayah Gebu & Jazzebelle - Aku sayang korang dan Aku doakan kebahagiaan. Semoga korang ketemu apa yang korang cari .. pergh.. ayat!! Sebenarnya aku nak cakap "kawan sampai bila bila" tapi macam geli sket la kan???

To Gib/A.J.A.X - Bawak - bawak la balik Malaysia... sebenarnya aku nak tulis bawak bawak la mengucap..hehehe.. You're a good friend. AND I love you for that..*muntah*

To IRA - I absolutely love your writing..senget but me loike! New Year di mana? Tengok bunga api kat dataran Ipoh jom??!! Aku bagi ko dukung Adam..

To a friend I haven't yet meet, Ib - congratulations!! Be happy but remember you still need to take care of yourself...

To Aishah, yes, you the strong woman - you're one of the strongest woman I knew. Its never easy for a mom to lose their child . I've seen my mum. Keep praying and you & family will be blessed

Untuk semua kawan kawan yang lain : Selamat Tahun Baru Hijrah 1430H dan Tahun Baru 2009! Wishing you guys the best! Keep on living! Enjoy!

Ring Sling

Adam bermuka cuak tengok layang layang

I am glad I had the ring sling with me in KLTN.

Larat ko nak dukung budak baru 5 bulan tapi dah nampak macam 7 bulan nih jenjalan kat tepi pantai ?

A Nice Feeling...

We arrived at KLTN on Friday around 4 p.m . It took us about 5 hours from Ipoh. Itu pun rasa dah bengkak bontot duduk lelama dalam kereta. But I love the 5 hours travel.

I don’t want to stuck with the office convoy so we went out a little bit earlier from the others. Me and Hubby, we agree to take turn driving. Katanya salah satu sebab dia pilih aku as his couple adalah, I can drive in a respectable manner. Ye lah tu! I thought you say it was because of my boobs?

As we knew the travelling will consume a lot of time and energy, we plan to stop every 2 hours so that we can attend Adam’s needs and stretch ourselves. So I drive first. Arrive at Grik around 12.00. Wanted to stop there for lunch but Adam is sleeping soundly with his daddy so I continue driving for another hour.

I knew the convoy will be stopping at R&R Titiwangsa, and it will be packed so I stop at R&R Air Banun, somewhere 10 minutes before Titiwangsa. It is much relaxing at Air Banun, with small waterfalls behind the eatery, its friendly owner and smaller number of occupants..

I am glad that we stopped at Air Banun. The eatery there belongs to a couple. The husband is a pentioner and he used to work for the army so he travels a lot. The makcik is a housewife. Now that all of their children are married and living away from them, she decided to open the eatery. They kept asking whether I need anything to makes Adam comfortable. Even offer to hold Adam for us while we were eating. But we are accustoms into taking turns while eating already.. heheheh....

There was also this mat salleh with his twins who speaks fluent Malay eating there. Katanya “Saya hendak ke Kota Bharu, melawat kawan. Kamu hendak ke sana juga??”

Reminds me of Mat Leh…

Hubby took turn on the driving wheels after that. We switched off the air cond. Memang best. Lama tak rasa udara fresh & sejuk macam tu. Adam tak mau tido, dan sibuk melompat lompat bila rasa angin sejuk dari luar kena muka dia...

It was a nice feeling… I feel blessed...

Selamat Jalan

Esok aku akan berangkat ke KLTN ..wahh..ayat macam nak pergi haji

Yup! It's for our office family day.

Akhirnya, confirm la jugak kan shopping tudung sampai muntah kat KLTN. But yours truly will go with tons of work and maybe you'll find me sitting in front of my laptop rather than bargaining for things at Pasar Siti Khadijah... *sigh*

I didn't participate in any of the arrangement for this family day.. Not like last time when I was so gila kuasa and I was the emcee for our annual dinner and committee member for accommodations, foods AND relay race. Boleh kata semua la kan.. hihihihi..Sebenarnya aku didajalkan untuk bekerja lebih masa dengan alasan aku takde anak kecik. Ha...sekarang merasa la korang semua pulak buat kerja hokayyss...

This will be our longest journey with Adam since. Setakat KL tu, dalam pantang pun Adam dah sampai. I expect we will be arriving later than others due to Adam needs (or maybe his mom's needs)...

Adam's grandparents on the other hand opt for a rather unusual choices of vacation. They and Shin Chan (of course it's Shin Chan's idea) opt to travel by train to KL and used every single public transportation there is in KL to hop from one shopping complex to the other....FYI, Adam's grandparents never, NEVER in their whole life naik LRT dan yang seangkatan dengannya without me around. They think it is too complicated and my dad got problems with its safety.

They manage to lost a handphone (bila salah naik train dan terlajak ke Salak Selatan). AND to the girl who was so nice to tell my dad that they were in the wrong train and help them to board another, thank you very much.

Hikhik..AND of course to IRA of thinkmuchspeaklittlewriteless, atas rasa bersalah akibat kemaluan yang tercipta itu (hahahahahhaha...tak boleh berenti gelak la bila teringat..) ade nak kirim ape ape tak?? Songket ke, Jeans Guess? ori siam mari ke, keropok lekor ke, nak?

Jenaka Jumaat

I found this one at The Baby Loft blog. True to the T...

Enjoy your weekend people...

FOLLOW THESE 14 SIMPLE TESTS BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO HAVE CHILDREN


Test 1 - Preparation
Women : To prepare for pregnancy:-
1. Put on a dressing gown and stick a beanbag down the front.
2. Leave it there.
3. After 9 months remove 5% of the beans.
If you're happy with it, then you are ready to get pregnant.

Men: To prepare for children:-
1. Go to a local chemist, tip the contents of your wallet onto the counter and tell the pharmacist to help himself
2. Go to the supermarket. Arrange to have your salary paid directly to their head office.
3. Go home. Pick up the newspaper and read it for the last time


Test 2 - Nights
To discover how the nights will feel:
1. Walk around the living room from 5pm to 10pm carrying a wet bag weighing approximately 4-6kg, with a radio turned to static (or some other obnoxious sound) playing loudly.
2. At 10pm, put the bag down, set the alarm for midnight and go to sleep.
3. Get up at 11pm and walk the bag around the living room until 1am.
4. Set the alarm for 3am.
5. As you can't get back to sleep, get up at 2am and make a cup of tea.
6. Go to bed at 2.45am.
7. Get up again at 3am when the alarm goes off.
8. Sing songs in the dark until 4am.
9. Put the alarm on for 5am. Get up when it goes off.
10. Make breakfast.
Keep this up for 5 years. LOOK CHEERFUL.


Test 3 - Dressing Small Children
1. Buy a live octopus and a string bag.
2. Attempt to put the octopus into the string bag so that no arms hang out.
Time Allowed: 5 minutes.


Test 4 - Cars
1. Forget the BMW. Buy a practical 5-door wagon.
2. Buy a chocolate ice cream cone and put it in the glovebox. Leave it there.
3. Get a coin. Insert it into the CD player.
4. Take a box of chocolate biscuits; mash them into the back seat.
5. Run a garden rake along both sides of the car.


Test 5 - Talking to children
Repeat everything you say at least 5 times.


Test 6 - Grocery Shopping
1. Go to the local supermarket. Take with you the nearest thing you can find to a pre-school child - a fully grown goat is excellent. If you intend to have more than one child, take more than one goat.
2. Buy your weekly groceries without letting the goat(s) out of your sight.
3. Pay for everything the goat eats or destroys.
Until you can easily accomplish this, do not even contemplate having children.


Test 7 - Feeding a 1 year-old
1. Hollow out a melon
2. Make a small hole in the side
3. Suspend the melon from the ceiling and swing it side to side
4. Now get a bowl of soggy cornflakes and attempt to spoon them into the swaying melon while pretending to be an aeroplane.
5. Continue until half the cornflakes are gone.
6. Tip the rest into your lap, making sure that a lot of it falls on the floor.


Test 8 - TV
1. Learn the names of every character from the Wiggles, Barney, Teletubbies and Disney.
2. Watch nothing else on television for at least 5 years.


Test 9 - Mess
Can you stand the mess children make? To find out:
1. Smear peanut butter onto the sofa and jam onto the curtains
2. Hide a fish behind the stereo and leave it there all summer.
3. Stick your fingers in the flowerbeds and then rub them on clean walls. Cover the stains with crayon. How does that look?


Test 10 - Getting ready for work
1. Pick a day on which you have an important meeting.
2. Put on your finest work attire.
3. Take a cup of cream and put 1 cup of lemon juice in it
4. Stir
5. Dump half of it on your nice silk shirt
6. Saturate a towel with the other half of the mixture
7. Attempt to clean your shirt with the same saturated towel
8. Do not change (you have no time).
9. Go directly to work


You are now ready to have children. ENJOY!!

Entry Memotivasikan Diri Sendiri

Aku bukanlah jenis orang yang bangun pagi dengan senyum lebar sampai ke telinga tiap tiap hari.
Juga bukan jenis orang yang ceria tak tentu hala menyambut kehidupan setiap hari.

Tapi aku juga tahu kita harus bersyukur dengan apa yang kita ada. Dan aku cuba untuk bersyukur.

Sebab aku tahu nun di ceruk lain kat dunia ni, ada orang lain yang mungkin tak cukup makan, derita sakit atau menghadapai tekanan perasaan yang serius... atau mungkin berada dalam keadaan yang amat daif.

Tapi aku manusia biasa, sebab tu aku macam ni.

Aku tak boleh nak senyum 24 jam bila hati aku risau.
Aku tak boleh nak buat buat gembira bila aku penat.
Aku tak boleh pura pura seronok bila aku tak dapat apa yang aku nak.

Ya, Sebab nya, aku ini Seorang manusia biasa.

AKu selalu nak lebih dari apa yang dah ada. Kecantikan, wang ringgit, kasih sayang. Semuanya tak pernah cukup...

Macam....

Pernah frust kenapa agaknya korang tak dijadikan seseksi Giselle Bunchen?
Atau pernah tanya kenapa korang tak dapat kerja yang korang dah nak sekian lama tu?
Atau mungkin korang pernah frust menonggeng sebab kena tinggal BF/GF?

Pernah terfikir tak yang sebenarnya korang dijanjikan yang lebih baik??

I'm meaty.

Dan sepanjang kehidupan remaja aku, beberapa kali jugak menyoal diri sendiri kenapa aku tak seseksi model2 bra triumph ittuew?

Aku sebenarnya dijanjikan Hubby yang worship my body and makes the best Milo in the world dan takut dengan perempuan kurus.
OK..takde kaitan. Tapi you get my point kan?

Kita mungkin frust hari ni. Tapi kita kena yakin, it's for the better.

Siapa tahu GF/BF yang tinggalkan korang tu sebenarnya kalau dah kawin nanti, seorang kaki pukul?

Siapa tahu sebenarnya kerja yang korang idam idamkan tu, indah khabar dari rupa. Kadang kadang gaji pun miss 2/3 bulan..mau ka??

Siapa tahu kalau Giselle Bunchen tu sebenarnya depressed sebab orang asyik tengok boobs dia mana mana dia pergi pun?

Siapa tahu???

*senyum simpul*

Opah Adam

Aku pernah mention kan Adam susah nak bergelak ketawa orangnya kecuali dengan ayahnya yang seorang ittuew?

Smalam opah (obviously lah kami orang Perak pure) Adam yakni mak aku telah berjaya membuatkan Adam mengelekek gelak tanpa henti selama 2 minit. Lepas tu aku perasan macam ade titis air jernih kat mata mak aku.

Huh..Apakah??

Sama ada dia sentimental lebih ataupun dia seronok sangat dapat buat Adam gelak…

Memang satu pencapaian besar kalau dapat buat Adam gelak besar….

Betul.....